Have great sex with these positions and techniques

Want mind-blowing sex? Read on..

Congratulations on finding this article! If you've continually searched the web for ways to improve your sex life then, like me you are looking for more positions and techniques to please your partner and enhance your own experience. I had always been an 'average' lover - not too bad but not earth shatteringly great either! I trawled the net for ways to improve my game and found some excellent sites that gave me some more 'amunition' to add to my arsenal! However, I also found quite a few rip-off sites that took my money to give me mostly information that I already knew. I've spend hundreds and hundreds in my search, and I have listed my most trusted and successful sites below to help narrow your own search and to avoid the disappointment that I had on countless ocassions. We'll get to those later though, because firstly I want to give you my own real-life tips and techniques that I KNOW will work every time! My girlfriend is now chasing me for sex all the time, and that's a real confidence booster, believe me. Also from a different point of view, because of the resources that I acquired during my searches, my girlfriend has also extended her own sexual repertoire which has made things just as amazing from my side too!

Quick tips

To begin with I want to dispell the biggest myth that is associated with sex. Although this article can be used by both men and women, us guys are the victims of our own insecurities. Pretty much every guy out there wishes he had a bigger penis (apart from the VERY lucky ones!) and probably thinks he needs one but the truth of the matter is that of course while some women may prefer a larger guy, overall the size of your penis DOES NOT MATTER! I'm an average sized guy - 7" long with an average girth and my girlfriend screams and moans every time we have sex and orgasms 8 times out of 10 (I'm not gonna lie, nobody's perfect and sometimes a guy just can't help himself! Ha ha!). With that out of the way, here are my top-tips to improving your lovemaking;

Tip 1 - Warm up

I don't mean jog on the spot for a few minutes and stretch off before going to bed but invest plenty of time in foreplay. Sure, it's great to just get down and go at it sometimes but if you want fantastic sex over the long term then you need to get this drummed into your head. The time you invest in foreplay is repaid ten times over during intercourse. It's very simple really when you put it like this - you can spend time before-hand getting yourselves aroused and raring to go to the point where you're both ready to explode, or you could waste half of your energy getting to the same point while actually having sex, therefore halving your overall pleasure at the end. Incidentally, a womans sexual response is a lot more complicated than a mans and female orgasm takes more time to achieve through sex alone, so more foreplay means more build-up which means more fun for her!! Obviously I am constrained by the size of this article, and I also do not want to tread on any copy-right 'toes' so I am also including the link to the best foreplay guide that I have found. There's a free email sign up to deliver tips right to your inbox This guide is packed with literally hundreds of ideas for ways to get a head start on your road to better sex TONIGHT! Just click here to be taken directly to the site.

Tip 2 - It's all in your head

By far the biggest sexual organ that we all posses is our mind. Think of how many times you've turned yourself on by thinking about your partner or a recent sexual encounter. U can use this to begin your foreplay hours before you are even together. A string of 'naughty' text messages throughout the day for example will have you both revved up before you even leave work! This flirtatious behaviour can also take you back to when you first met your significant other if things are becoming a bit routine, because you have been together for a long time. Experience the thrill of the chase combined with the knowledge that you will have your prize as soon as you get home! Again (and quite importantly), female sexual arousal is more dependant upon mental stimulation whereas men are more turned on by what they see. Make use of this and you will find that your mind is one of the best ways to ensure that you both enjoy amazing sex and a fuller love life, so start engaging your brain as soon as possible.

Tip 3 - Move closer

Bodily contact is one of the most intimate things we can do, whether it's just holding hands or cuddling up to each others naked bodies under the covers. It all makes us feel closer to the person we're with and connected to them on a very personal level. Now, I'm not gonna go on about things being all spiritual and stuff but in my opinion, sex is so much better when you feel that closeness with some one. It can lead to you making love rather than just having sex because you want to show your caring for that person. That said, you won't have to be like that every time, but it just adds another avenue for you to both explore. Another great way to to get closer is through massage. This is a favourite of my girlfriend because she gets to be pampered a bit and just relax, but it's also great for me because it usually leads to other things That's the beauty of massage, it starts out innocently but then it can develope into something much more fun!

Tip 4 - Talk

Another important aspect is to talk. This is applicable to anything from a one night stand to a loving relationship. Talking during sex is not off-putting so long as it is done in the right way. This is down to the individual a lot of the time regarding what is said - "you like that don't you b*tch!" may not be everyone's cup of tea and so should be discussed prior to anything of that nature being used! However, just asking if something is nice or indeed telling your partner what you like or don't like all help tailor your session to something that you will both enjoy. Although this is a good thing to practice, don't do it too much as your partner can feel like they are having to instruct you or are being directed to much throughout the whole thing, and it will lose the natural flowing feeling. Also, talking afterwards will help with any future encounters that you may have with your partner. Things like "Did you like it when I.." or "I didn't really feel too comfortable when you.." are good examples of 'pillow talk' and should be encouraged if one of you is more able to talk about this than the other. This will ensure that both of you are enjoying sex as much as you can, and it also makes you a more considerate lover.

Great sex positions

Surprisingly, the positions that you already know are the best ones for great results. The only difference being that you need to tweak them to find the various angles and changes that work best for you. Adventurous positions are great, they are fun to try and can provide a lot of differences in terms of penetration etc but always remember - and I'm saying this with a "been there, done that" kinda look on my face - don't bother trying to copy the positions that you see in pornographic films. Although it seems good because the actress (hint; actress being the operative word) is making loads of noise and looking ecstatic, the positions that they use are to get the best view for the camera, not because they feel good! Here's a quick run-down of my personal four favourite positions..

MISSIONARY The possibilities with this one are endless! You can greatly vary the angle and depth of penetration in a number of ways. The guy can kneel right up, lean over the lady propped up on his arms, or rest his weight on her for added closeness. She can wrap her legs around his waist, put her feet on his chest for deeper penetation, or put her feet on the guys shoulders - he can then lean forward onto her legs for even deeper penetration. My personal favourite though (which I've nick-named 'the screamer') is to hook the backs of the lady's knees with your elbows, and depending on how flexible she is you can lean quite far foward and vary your thrusts to see what she likes best. This is one of the best positions for G-Spot stimulation and is a must for a guy to learn, so girls - if you haven't already tried it then get your guy to give it a go as soon as possible!
FROM BEHIND/DOGGY STYLE Again, there are a few variations to try out with this position too. One of the main differences is between kneeling up and standing up, but you can also try the 'one knee' approach where the guy starts off by kneeling behind the lady, but then bringing one leg up so that he is kind of in a similar position to how he would be if he were proposing. For the guys with strong thighs, try squatting up behind the lady and thrusting by bending your knees more-so than with your pelvis. This is a good position for deep penetration but does take it's toll on the legs after a while!
FEMALE ON TOP (FACING PARTNER) A great one for the ladies in terms of control, and a good one for the guys because of the view! As with Missionary, the angle of penetration can be experimented with quite a lot depending on how much the lady leans forward or back. Leaning back helps to hit the G-Spot and is possibly the best position to achieve female orgasm because of the level of control that the lady has.
REVERSE COWGIRL This is best done with the man sitting on the edge of the bed/chair. The woman then lowers herself ontop and can then either use her legs to bounce up and down, or just lower herself fully and rock her hips back and forth to create a more 'grinding' motion. From here, the guy can also lean up to help support his partner.
Remember There are plenty of other places besides the obvious ones that enjoy being stroked, kissed, licked and nibbled so don't be afraid to experiment!

Resources

The above information is just a snippet of the things that I have learnt on my quest to becoming a better lover, so now for the bit that you've probably all been waiting for - my resources! As I said previously, there are literaly hundreds of different info-products for sale out there and I've bought most of them! The below links are the products that I found to have a wealth of genuine information which has worked for me time and time again.

I'd just like to take this opportunity to thank you for taking the time to read this, and I hope that it will bring you many, many amazing experiences in your personal lives. Please leave comments if you found this information useful. If you take one thing away from this blog then make sure it's the most important thing - have fun! As a wise lady once said to me "Remember to be good, but if you can't be good, be careful!"

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